A social media post from a CEO suggests charging a $20 fee to apply for jobs to reduce underqualified or mismatched applicants. The post has 5 likes, 22 comments, and 1 repost. The user’s name and details are blacked out.
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There’s a saying for a reason: beggars can’t be choosers. Yet somehow, these people missed the memo entirely. Whether they’re asking for help, favors, or freebies, they still manage to complain about how it’s delivered.

From rejecting generosity to nitpicking kindness, these people prove that asking for help doesn’t always come with gratitude. Here are 20 people who truly don’t accept that beggars can’t be choosers.

1. Please, finance my holiday party

A message reads: “Im in desperate need for some food items, I would never ask for anything so specific, but its for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day! Im absolutely desperate, we had the money for groceries and had something come up 😭 I just want to have a good holiday, and keep our little traditions going for another year 🙏”
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2. Begging for $350 in donations for a new toy

A screenshot of an online discussion about buying a Douglas plush cat. An item listing shows a subtotal of $384.13 for a Douglas Chenille White Cat plush. Below, a user explains their fondness for this specific plush.
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3. I need a cat two days before Christmas, and trained

A social media post requesting a potty-trained, affectionate cat for a daughter for Christmas, mentioning the cat should wait at the door to go outside, and expressing hope that someone has a loving kitty available.
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4. That person with the long list

A social media post where a parent asks for small or medium-sized clothes from a specific brand for their 13-year-old daughter, saying she loves fashion, and also requests Insta film for Christmas.
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5. Feels a little desperate for such a specific meal

A Facebook post asking for help with a spiral cut ham, a bag of rolls, and a pumpkin pie by tomorrow; the writer says their food stamps are gone and cash went to bills. Red scribbles cover names and profile pictures.
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6. Asking for free shoes…and Uggs apparently

A social media post asks if anyone has women’s size 7 or 8 UGG boots or slippers in good condition to give away, specifying they must be UGG brand. Two hand gesture emojis and a thumbs-up icon are also present.
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7. Does anyone have 2 tickets to spare?

A social media post asking for two Nutcracker tickets as a birthday gift, with crying and sad face emojis, jokingly saying they’re kidding but asking if anyone has cheap tickets. The post has 6 likes, 18 comments, and 1 heart.
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8. Free console, please, for my son

Two Facebook posts: The first asks if anyone can donate a Nintendo Switch or PlayStation 4 for an 11-year-old boy’s Christmas. The second requests a PlayStation 5 box for a console bought at a pawn shop.
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9. Can someone here write about me?

A social media post asks if anyone in a group is interested in writing a book about the poster’s life, offering credit and possible payment, and preferring someone who enjoys their company and loves to write. Four likes, six comments, reactions shown.
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10. Looking for a place to live

A social media post reads: "Hi everyone I am looking for a place to leave in [redacted], with bill included. Max I can pay £500. But not share please. Let me know if you know in [redacted], not too far from [redacted] station.
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11. Can you do the nails for my child? And all of us?

White text on a purple background says: "I'm looking for someone to donate some eyelashes, nails, and a hairstyle for my daughter's 15th birthday without bothering anyone.
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12. Not asking too much, just a phone

A social media post reads, "Single mom of eight needs iPhone 16 256GB." It shows reactions, including laughing emojis, comments, and shares, with the top reaction from "Anonymous member 856 (You) and 24 others.
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13. It´s for a friend

A Facebook post from a group called "Mamas Helping Mamas" where an anonymous member requests a Dooney and Burke purse or similar, and women’s long skirts and dresses size L-XL for a family member in need. Location is blacked out.
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14. What we needed: jobless and moneyless

A social media post from a CEO suggests charging a $20 fee to apply for jobs to reduce underqualified or mismatched applicants. The post has 5 likes, 22 comments, and 1 repost. The user’s name and details are blacked out.
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15. Almost free moving help

A Facebook post asking for help moving with a truck or trailer, offering $100 for one helper or $75 each for two. The poster needs to move out by 5 pm before buyers take possession.
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16. Please, someone know a mechanic who doesn´t charge?

A Facebook post asks for a mobile mechanic to check a car for free or nearby, as the poster, a single mom of three, doesn't feel safe driving it. Profile name and photo are blacked out.
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17. Bring the furniture that you donated

A classified ad titled "WANTED: House hold goods (2700 Block of E Main St)" requests house furniture. The user, Winnie87, asks for delivery due to lacking a vehicle. The date is August 5, 2025.
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18. Only new, please

A social media post reads: "I need Twin and queen size mattress in need good condition n not really used." The phrase "not really used" is highlighted in yellow. Reaction, comment, and share icons are below the post.
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19. Do you have a rug for my dog?

A social media post requesting a cheap or free 8x10 or larger rug for a dog that is not yet house-trained, mentioning the dog urinates on rugs; the user's name and photo are blacked out.
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20. Help me with my pasta!

A Facebook community post from an anonymous member asking for pantry items or groceries to make pasta Alfredo, requesting drop-off since they have no car. The post has 7 likes and 19 comments.
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